- age 3-6
- engage in several types of play, sometimes with other children, sometimes beside other children without playing
- spontaneous group likely to be small, not organised , subject to change
- quarrel frequently but quick to forgive and forget
- enjoy being dramatic and inventive, drawing ideas from cartoons
- Major types of children's play
- Solitary play - plays with a toy alone, does not pay attention to others
- Onlooker behaviour - watches other children and may comment, but does not join them
- Parallel play - plays beside another child, perhaps with same toy or same activity, but will not join other child, eg two children building roads will build two separate roads rather than work together to build one road
- Associative play - plays with other children but unorganised, without assignment of roles or purpose
- Cooperative play - organised with assignment of roles. May have end result, eg art project, play. Eg play 'house', 'doctor'.
Primary Grades
- age 6-9
- have best friends and selected enemies
- play in small groups, with organised rules
- learn games with one set of rules, if encounter another child with different rules, seldom resolve differences between rules
- quarrels frequent
Elementary Grades
- age 9-12
- social interaction important, peer group becomes powerful influence, more than adult influence
- many children acting with similar mannerism, frequently dressing, talking the same way, mimicking role models, latest "fashion" trend, what's "IN"
- seek attention of peers
- sometimes wise for teacher to ignore minor "attention seeking". If behaviour disrupts, reprimand and design a particular behaviour modification program.
- positive characteristic: increased sensitivity to others' feelings, empathy
Junior High Grades
- age 12-15
- should be encouraged to think through their actions and predict consequences
- encourage think alternative approaches and consequence
- begin to be interested in student government, establish own policies
- discussion of moral and political behaviour can be stimulating, but sometimes difficult for students to express/defend minority opinions
- tendency to conform to peer group by acting, dressing, eating alike
- concerned with self image, acceptance by peers
- vandalism tend to occur
Secondary Grades
- peer pressure important influence, but parents and teachers have important impact on long term decisions
- begin to act more mature
- receptive to respect adults give them
- deeper friendship nurtured